The Bible Jesus Read

I just finished the book, “The Bible Jesus Read” by Philip Yancey. I give it two thumbs and two big toes up! Find a copy and read it. You’ll be rocked.

As for what I learned from it: Too much to post here. I will say I have a newfound appreciation for the Old Testament. I look forward to getting into the Prophets; I don’t dread them. And I think I will enjoy going through Deuteronomy soon as well.

Let me close with this, because I want you to go read the book yourself, rather than me telling you all about it here. When I finished the chapter on The Prophets, I almost cried. I certainly repented, for I have not respected, nor desired to read The Prophets. I was so torn up because this is, after all, the section of Scripture in which God talks back!

Walk

The word walk can invoke all sorts of images and emotions.

Maybe you take a long, leisurely walk on a lovely, fall day (like my family did today). Maybe you fight the biting, arctic chills to walk into the stores and do some shopping for the holidays. Maybe you rejoice at watching your baby walk for the first time ever (as I did just a few months ago). Maybe you briskly walk on the treadmill to get into shape. Or, maybe, you just walk, with no real emotion or goal in mind.

Sadly, I think many people walk with no goal in mind. People go to college because that’s what you do after you finish high school. People get a job because that’s what you do when you finish school. People tie the knot and start having kids because that’s what you do when you become an adult.

Please don’t misunderstand me, by all means, go learn as much as you can. By all means, find a job and start working, so you have something to do every day. By all means, find a spouse that loves you for who you are and start procreating. These can all be tremendous blessings.

But don’t just walk into these things haphazardly. Don’t do them just because “that’s what people do.”

Do these things with a focused intentionality, with a worthwhile purpose, with a deep-seated desire. Do these things with an end in mind.

And friends, the only place you’ll find that intentionality, that purpose, that desire is in Jesus, the Christ, the author and finisher of our faith. He is where the real walk will begin…

and end.

Love. Sex. God. Pt3

The last post focused primarily on single people. This post is primarily for married people.

Simple summary for simple people: Talk about sex with your spouse. The Bible encourages it.

People who like an explanation, read on:

Dear Mr. or Mrs. _____,

Please talk about sex with your spouse. It is not taboo. It is not a difficult conversation. It is not awkward after the first discussion. Talk about sex and get on the same page. If you’re in this for a lifetime, you want to get this sex thing worked out early, so it gets better and better with time, not worse and worse. So, ask your spouse: How often do you want sex? What times or scenarios are ideal? Do you like certain positions better? Do you like sex to be quick or drawn-out? Do you like a warm-up? What brings you the greatest pleasure? What do you like to do afterward?

All these questions are a sampling of what you can ask. And remember, have the conversation at regular intervals. It doesn’t have to be daily or weekly or even monthly; just keep the lines of communication open. Just like everything else in life, your sex life will have seasons—especially during the child-bearing years.

Last, but not least, I want you to know why I (and Rick) encourage this. We advise you do this because of something Paul said in a letter to the church in Corinth. In that letter, Paul said, “The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does,” which makes feminists today cringe. But he continues on and says, “Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does,” which makes the male supremacists cringe. Way back then, all the way through today, this teaching has caused some waves. It causes waves because it destroys your autonomy. You become submissive to your spouse and your spouse becomes submissive to you. But trust me, when you do it well, you’ll feel the magic, both sexually and spiritually.

With all sincerity,
omer

PS: You can find the referenced sermon at http://www.imagodeicommunity.com/sunday/sermon-archive/ .

Love. Sex. God. Pt2

**You can find the referenced sermon at http://www.imagodeicommunity.com/sunday/sermon-archive/ .**

In this second sermon, Rick explores the economy of sex.

The basic argument is that the price of sex is lower than it’s ever been before. I know, it’s odd for a pastor to talk about sex in economic terms, but you have to understand where he goes with it.

First, we must realize a few simple premises. Generally speaking:

  1. Men want sex more than women do.
  2. Women talk about sex more than men do.
  3. Sex starts when the woman says it does.
  4. The price of sex is negotiable.

Second, I must clarify that when Rick (or I) mention the price of sex, we’re talking about what is given in exchange for the act. For example, the highest price a woman can set for sex is a marriage relationship. A lifelong, covenant marriage, not a shotgun wedding with a quick annulment. That lifelong marriage covenant is the highest price. A lower price would be “we must be living together.” Even lower, “we must be ‘officially’ dating.” Lower still, “He has to impress me.”

Ladies, men will do most anything to try to impress you. They will buy your meals, give you flowers, ask you questions, and pretend to listen. And if that’s all it takes, men will pretend and schmooze and act as romantic as you want. But in that situation, the man isn’t in it to make you feel loved. He’s in it to satisfy his own desires.

Set the price of sex high. God did.

Along with that, it should be mentioned that God set the price so high because He knows how much the physical act of sex is tied with your emotions, your mental stability, and your soul. He made you a fully integrated being. So to try to please God with everything you have, except your sexual life, is an exercise in futility. You simply can’t do it. Why?

Because there’s a disconnect in your soul. Your body is doing one thing and every other part of you is doing another. Remember, we are 100% spiritual, 100% sexual. Offering ourselves to God means offering our whole self, sex life and all.

I Know You

The book of Jeremiah has never been one of my favorites. I like the biographical information on Jeremiah, which is interspersed throughout; but I don’t necessarily get a kick out of reading the whole book. That said,

at the beginning of the book,  there’s a little phrase from the Lord, which I’m sure many of you have heard before.  The Lord says to Jeremiah, “I knew you before I formed you in your mother’s womb. Before you were born I set you apart and appointed you as my prophet to the nations.”

This interests me because of the monstrous implications coming from this statement. No, I’m not referring to abortion issues. I’m referring to issues of sovereignty. What this means is that the Lord is not an object about which we have questions. He is not a subject we read about in books. He is not a discussion topic. He is not someone we “like” on Facebook or follow on Twitter. He is not an idea some cave man thought up long ago. He is not a tree, a sunset, or Mother Earth.

Simply put, we did not come up with the idea of God. He came up with the idea of us.

God created you, and me, and all that the eye can see. According to this verse in Jeremiah, He knew us before we ever knew Him. He knew who we were, before our mother’s knew who we were. And depending on your interpretation of this verse and many others in the Bible, it might just be the case that God knows how our lives will pan out long before we know it. He may know the decisions we make before we make them. He may know that we’re going to be “a prophet to the nations.” He may know what our next job will be. Shoot, He may even know what our calling in life is.

Think about it…so many of us are trying to figure out our lives–where to go next, what to do next, who will be in our lives and the like. Maybe, God knows these things all along. And maybe, He wants to tell us that we’re set apart, that He knows our personalities, our gifts, our talents and abilities. Maybe He wants to tell us what our life calling is, but we’re just too distracted to listen.

And who knows? If you ask, seek, or knock, you may just find what, or rather Who, you are looking for.

Love. Sex. God.

**You can find the referenced sermon at http://www.imagodeicommunity.com/sunday/sermon-archive/ .**

I listened to a sermon earlier this week, and I liked it so much I wanted to share it with you. The title is “Love, Sex, and God: Week 1.”

Throughout the sermon, Rick is exploring the foundational issues related to love, sex, and God. All three could take a lifetime to explore, so forgive me if I/Rick gloss over some things.

The first point is that we are human beings. Mind-boggling huh? But think about it, as human beings we are 100% spiritual and 100% sexual. By downplaying this fact, we run the risk of destroying ourselves, destroying part of what it means to be human. Ignoring our sexuality=ignoring our humanity. Ignoring our spirituality=ignoring our humanity.

Once we accept that we are 100% sexual (and 100% physical, emotional, and spiritual) beings, then we must decide what avenue we want to pursue with our sexuality and spirituality. Do we want to be strictly pleasure seekers? Or do we want to be covenant makers and covenant keepers? In other words, are we looking for something shallow or something deep?

If we are only looking for the shallow, we will be consumed with sex in a physical sense. We will be focused on the frequency of sex, the techniques of sex, the intensity of sex. We will be consumed with how often we “get some,” how good we are in bed, how hot and wild the sex becomes.

But if we’re focused on the deeper side of sex–the emotional, mental, and spiritual aspects of sex, then we will have a much grander experience, a much fuller existence. With a focus on covenant making, we will enter a relationship, a marriage more particularly, with the intent of living life together, not having one night stand after one night stand. Because when we’re really honest with ourselves, our emotions can’t handle the stress of wondering whether the person we have sex with that night will be there in the morning when we wake up. It’s just too much to handle. Living this lifestyle, we will tend to one of two extremes: we will become overly insecure basketcases, or we will become calloused animals incapable of feeling.

Which leads us to covenant keeping. Over time, we will learn how to satisfy our mate’s deepest longings sexually. We will look for ways to improve our techniqu, but it won’t be our focus. We will be focused on how to please one another, not just ourselves. We will want to learn what it takes to make our hearts sing. And we’ll learn to appreciate each other for more than just our physical appeal. We’ll experience a bond, a connection, a security and comfort with one another that, honestly, is the closest thing we can feel to heaven on earth.

Like Rick says, pleasure seeking is like driving a Porsche, but never learning to shift into second gear. It will only take a short time before we have to go to the mechanic. Covenant making and covenant keeping is like cruising through the country roads, shifting in and out of the turns, gaining the full driving experience.

What do you think? Is he right? Is this true?